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Most of the men value women as goddesses. Goddess with an unimaginable desirability, worthiness, and beauty. However, the issue is that many women don’t realise this. They are unaware of their self-worth. One of the most fundamental things is to accept yourself first – You are the way you are. Don’t try to be someone else. To realise the full potential of your self-worth, you need to change your mindset and your beliefs. You need a mental picture before you become conscious of something. One needs to carry gratitude to what someone already has, and to do that one needs to first pose a question – What am I grateful for?. You see the idea? The thing is more positive thinking you shall bring your mind, the more your mind will work on positive explanations and help you actionise positive factors.

Here are some important facts that you may consider when you talk to a man.

  1. When you will lead a discussion generally men think of a worst case scenario. Yes that’s the way men are wired. Perhaps it’s the genes that makes them prepared for the worst on survival instincts. I don’t know but that’s the way it is. If you want to discuss something with him next time, don’t just jump into the scene and declare that you want to discuss something. This is a sure way of sending him in panic, and he become mentally prepared for a worst case scenario. Which is not what you want… right?
  2. Avoid being too emotional. Again, most of the men are wired to be practical and result oriented. If you bring some more practicality in front of them, you just lose all the attention. Words like future, late, needs, and worry will send him into a tail spin of boredom as that is what his mind is on most of the times. Try to have a conversation instead like a friend and see him fire up. If you can listen he will love you!
  3. Eye to eye contact is almost an alarm bell and it goes ringing if you do that with him. This ritual is reserved for people like his mother or divorce attorney (don’t try this at home). He will be more comfortable talking to you when you are not making an eye to eye contact. How about when he is holding you lovingly from behind spooning or when you are reading something or maybe he is. In either case, when he is in a hot embrace, he is least protective about himself and is only thinking about you.
  4. Don’t ask him what he is thinking. Yeah, he doesn’t have a mind like you which just keeps about thinking just anything all the time. You like it or not, many men may not be thinking anything and just love to gaze in zero (surprising but true). You can turn this completely on his head if you ask what he is doing or just watch him do something and bring in a conversation. All in all, men are about friendly conversations, and the more you do that with them more access you will have into their mind.
  5. Don’t ask him where he was, or where he is going. Yes, yes I know you are like- why not? And believe me, this is the greatest turn off for men. Asking of where a man is headed is almost like questioning him on his commitment, Whoa! The more you do that, the more he will have tendency to be overtly secretive and non-committal. You see you are encroaching on his independence which was gifted to him by the Gods!

Source by Mariyam B Hasnain

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